What is it within men that MAKE them HAVE to cheat? It has been proposed that many men suffer from similar types of low self esteem issues as many women but unlike ladies men have far fewer coping mechanisms and are inclined to resort to their primal urge to literally CONQUER their fears by inflicting further damage in themselves and those who have ‘wronged’ him. The assailant often ‘deserves’ being trumped by whomever the deems more suitable to accommodate his immediate needs.
Insecurity is an evil that damages and causes ruin. Men are not the only one capable of this type of damage. So the next time the opportunity presents to stand firmly in front of your mate let it not be because you have to admit to something wrong doing . But instead let it be an opportunity to work out the issue dead inclines you to have thoughts of being destructive to yourself your mate and your relationship. Confront the issue. Believe in your mate enough to express to them what exactly it is they are doing that makes you feel wounded.
It is so childish to run to the next little girl who is willing to share her ball. Be a big boy who found his grown up work boots. Stick around and fix it rather than collapsing at every sign of rocky relational terrain.
Sand boxes can get muddy in the rain….but they eventually dry.