The judgement placed prevents people from wanting to interact with them. Yet they are quick to point the blame on the OTHER person and will incorrectly state that as being the issue.
Ask yourself WHAT IS MY PART IN ALL OF THIS? HOW HAVE I CONTRIBUTED TO THE PROBLEM? There are always two, three or four sides to EVERY situation. Playing victim while attempting to bully is a personified oxymoron.
People will interface with you based on how you approach the world.
Your arrogance is beyond comprehension.
Children are watching and replicating the exact characteristics they see in their care providers. The people they are seeing, are literally walking around with their noses in the air though they profess to have committed their lives to helping humanity. The divested nonsensibility is imparted in the ever observing eyes. Doubt arises regarding the sincerity of subsequent actions or promises.
Victims are perpetuating their insecurities on everyone else and DEMANDING that the world change to suit THEIR qualms and idiosyncrasies.
WORK ON FINDING YOUR INDIVIDUAL RESOLVE RATHER THAN PROJECTING NEUROSIS ON EVERYBODY!
Please understand that perfect does not exist in this world.
One can come very close when looking in the eyes of a newborn or when enjoying a peaceful spring day. But what it is not is complete ignorance of upholding absolute rights to appear ‘down for whatever”. And what you won’t do is pass off misinformation as knowledge and expect people to buy it. What will not happen is insulting people to their face repeatedly and expect people to love you. What you won’t do is pretend to be something that you are absolutely not and expect folks to gravitate to the felt insecurity. AND What you won’t do is act like everything said on social networking sites is solely ABOUT YOU. That is narcissistic not ambition…know the difference. Based on the definition asserted by the Mayo Clinic…almost everyone in the world could be classified as having Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Despite the evidence, there is no justification for creating these dysfunctional dynamics because of perceived notions of grandeur.
…now see TMI
But then again who ever ‘checked’ you? The heads of households, school houses, and criminal systems are way too lackadaisical, if they exist at all. Ignoring bad behavior is getting us absolutely nowhere. In fact the practice is birthing more and more incompentence, rudeness, and criminality. A necessary component to ensuring the healthy development of cultures is the proper correction of its children. As previously stated the models for behavior are saying the wrong things with what they themselves are portraying.
But that’s ok, because there are a few of us left that are more than willing and able to check that when need be….a change is a coming.
There was a time not so long ago when people were alot more fortified. There was a resilience that is not as present these days.
“You’re being too sensitive”…nope just calling you on your nonsense.
There was an understanding that respect begets respect. It was taught that nothing is ever handed to you and that effectively communicating was the way to get the things you needed in life. Now those values have been completely extracted and replaced with indignation, self righteousness and a sense of entitlement.
NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING…YOU BETTER GET OUT THERE AND GET IT FOR YOURSELF
What will most assuredly happen is that people who know better or are capable of ‘seeing’ will willingly disengage from the falsity. There will be no fighting. There will be no hard feelings, just dissolution.
When someone gives suggestion, provides insight or seeks further information the demonization process is astounding. But the demonizers have no intention of letting anyone outshine their campaign. Note: demonizer replaces the word hater.
Companies /Individuals are willing to sacrifice productivity, professionalism, and all around positive attributes that build rather than to appear unpopular. Employers seeking candidates right now are turning away experienced professionals for those perceived to be less of a challenge. Does this practice encourage mediocrity within organizations or does it create effective customized work drones?
There are other options for those who aren’t reluctant to step out on faith.
STUDY: University of Michigan; Social Media & Narcissism
Playing games, minimizing people to make self feel better and silent treatments are childish. Opting to partake in circumstances that cultivate maturity and spiritual development are integral to those striving to become a SUCCESS at being a good person. The big man doesn’t care how much money you have in your pocket but how many throats you sliced to get it.
1 Corinthians 12:12